Let's talk a little about the relationship between men andwomen, namely, gender relations. A number of articles of our site are devoted to this problem. In some articles serious questions are raised, some of them touch upon the practical aspects of these complex relations. Let's talk about the image of a girl in the minds of men and about the stereotypes that are associated with this image. So:
What should be the ideal girl?
Just want to note the utopian nature of the issue. The ideal state is a state that has frozen in time and space. With confidence, we can say that there is nothing ideal in our universe. This applies to men with women. With this in mind, you can simplify your understanding of ideality and thereby ease your life.
But we live in a world that works according to the lawsstereotypes. There are a lot of men's attitudes about an ideal woman. Do not think that men do not dream of such a woman next to him. From time immemorial, there is a stereotype of such a physiological plan. At a subconscious level, men are attracted to women who have a figure. And the size of the figure has no determining value. The leading role is determined by the forms. The woman should be wide in the chest, narrow at the waist and wide at the hips. Observance of these proportions gives the man instinctive information that a woman is able to bear his fetus, that is, a child (wide hips), and she is able to feed him (wide in the chest). Accordingly, one of the elements of the ideal image of a woman is the presence of the correct shapes of the figure. That's what an ideal girl should be.
Well and one more mechanism which does the girlideal in the eyes of a man. There are assumptions that a man looks for in his girlfriend the features that are characteristic of his mother. This is due to the care of the mother during early childhood. This mechanism is unique in every person and is inherent in both women and men.