How to punish the offender?
The desire to punish the offender is natural for any person, especially since the desire to compensate the offender caused the evil is quite true. Let's try to consider the options of how to punish the offender, without losing their dignity and not stooping to criminality.
Revenge against the abuser: important rules and methods
Firstly, it should be remembered that any actions committed in the heat of the moment, under the influence of emotions, most likely will not bring the desired effect. Therefore, all their actions must first be well thought out and weighed.
Secondly, the punishment of the offender must be proportionate. If, in response to a petty insult, you let the offender around the world and his entire family, then you will later feel uncomfortable - your conscience will seize.
Thirdly, it is necessary to choose the right punishment, to correlate its appearance with the social and financial situation of the offender, his level of development. Simply put, if you try to insult a boor in response to an insult to him, he will simply take it as a passing fact in his biography.But if you force him to bring a public apology by a court decision, he will already accept this fact as a real punishment, especially if he occupies a high position in society.
Fourth, always remember that before you decide to punish the offender, you should always find out more about him. Information and evidence - your main weapon. If the desire to punish the offender is strong enough and finances allow, then there is no need to collect information yourself, now there are a lot of specialized detective agencies.
Now you can consider options for how to carry out retribution to your abuser.
Career and Finance
If your abuser is briskly moving up the career ladder, working in an area directly related to finances or providing services, or you have learned that he simply has plans to improve his financial situation, try hitting his pocket or career:
- Entrepreneurial activity is rarely carried out without any violations, even small ones, especially in the field of trade and the provision of services. If your abuser is from this sphere, you have sufficient chances to provide him with a long headache by reporting existing violations to the control and fiscal authorities.This may be a tax or labor inspection, fire brigade, etc .;
- If the abuser engages in public or political activities, the destruction of his image will be a blow to his career and a terrible punishment for him. To do this, it is enough to publish the facts, which characterize him impartially;
- Perhaps your abuser cherishes just personal plans on how to improve your financial condition. Let's say he expects to receive an inheritance. To punish him, enough of these plans to destroy. For example, to find other applicants for inherited property.
In all these cases, it must be remembered that all the information collected must be completely reliable and demonstrable, otherwise there is a chance to bear the responsibility for libel.
The offender has spread information about you that discredits honor and dignity, undermines reputation, or insulted your honor and dignity in public? You have a good chance of bringing him to criminal responsibility for defamation or insult by going to court on a private prosecution basis. Your boss called you a drunkard and drone? Added obscene statements? This is slander and insult.
In the same way, you can attract the offender for beatings.And if the medical commission determines that as a result of the beatings you were disabled from 7 to 21 days, you can bring the offender for causing minor bodily harm.
Before you apply to the court do not forget that the burden of proof is on you. Gather the relevant documents, find witnesses. If you have beaten, you should contact the emergency room or other medical institution and record the damage in the certificate.
Mysterious and unexplained events often occur around us that may lead us to believe in the existence of magical powers. Yes, and various magicians and sorcerers of all kinds assure that in the question of how to punish the offender, magic has its own recipes, as effective as the real ones. Try to contact a practicing mage, or use a magic spell from the relevant literature or from the Web.
Popular wisdom accumulates over the centuries. Who knows, maybe great-grandmother plots that are passed down from generation to generation, will be able to help punish the offender. Moreover, the plot, how to punish the offender is quite easy to find, now there is enough books on this topic.Or maybe you were prompted by a whispery grandmother who lives in a nearby village? You can try to contact her.