How do guys break up?
Hardly anyone agrees that men andwomen part with their beloved quite differently. They also have different experiences of parting and parting. For example, many girls, even for long years after the breakdown of relations, can not understand why their beloved person left them. Some of them are convinced that it is not natural for men to give an explanation, others believe that this is a manifestation of selfishness, while others consider such behavior to be a flight from responsibility. What actually guides the guy at the time of the break, how do guys feel about parting as opposed to girls and why do they choose specific ways? In this article we will try to answer these frequent questions.
There are many cases when nothing suggestingthe girl, returning from work, discovers that her beloved has collected her things and left her. No serious reasons, no quarrels or scandals that could provoke such an act, no. On all questions and demands to explain her behavior she hears only the trivial "I can not" or something else in this spirit. And, as you know, uncertainty is worst: the girl is not conscious of her guilt and does not understand the reason for the boy's departure.
In similar cases it is very likely thatthe latter just made their conclusions on the basis of the unknown to the girl of conjecture, which made him leave silently. For him everything is very clear, he does not need additional clarification of relations, he decided everything. Any conversations on the topic seem to him just pointless, because "all the same nothing does not change." While the girl, being more emotional and having a greater need to express her own feelings, would in such a situation express everything she thinks about a particular issue. A man often prefers to leave in silence to avoid unnecessary emotions.
Another option for this behavior is the newpassion or love. In this case, the guy again often chooses the tactics of "nothing superfluous," just this time for other reasons. Here, he can sincerely try not to traumatize the girl with his confession, wanting to hide from her the true cause of the separation. Sooner or later the girl recognizes her, but for some reason it seems to him that "then" it will not be so painful.
It also happens that the guy, finally deciding onthe break of relations, tells the girl for some half an hour all that he had accumulated from the moment when he began to think about leaving. This behavior for a girl is sometimes like electric shock. Again, the vulnerability and emotionality of the female does not allow the girls to keep their sensations in themselves for a very long time. As a rule, they tend to say what they are dissatisfied with, at the very moment of their indignation, and not when they decide to leave.
Thus, even small quarrels showabout the misunderstanding that has settled in the relationship, but, on the other hand, subconsciously prepare for the possibility of their rupture. That is why many girls find it very difficult to recover after such a break-up: they were sure that everything was fine.
Lies for good or fear of responsibility?
It also happens that the guy planning his carefrom the girl, exposes the parting of her initiative. Often, female representatives view this behavior as an escape from responsibility for their decision. That is, to not explain anything and avoid possible accusations from the girl, the guy just creates a situation when she decides to leave.
Those who want to understand how the guys part, it is necessaryknow that such an act is not always due to fear of responsibility. Sometimes it is a manifestation of genuine nobility. In this case, the guy just frees the girl from the pain of resentment, giving her the role of the abandoned, not abandoned. So he saves her vanity and gives you the opportunity to think that it's not in her, but in it.