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Everything you have in life is your choice.
Your life is a series of events in which you make a permanent choice: go forward or backward. Determining where you are going is simple. If the result of the action is spiritual satisfaction, your direction is right. If you feel bad with yourself, then something went wrong.
Why circumstances of life don't matter
I will show you how in two different situations children make one decision. The decision to feel bad. Comparing these two situations, I realized the importance of the decision made, and not the situation in which you find yourself.
In the first situation, the parents hide their problems from the child. They restrain their negative emotions and do not transmit their negative with a child. When the child enters the room where the parents find out the relationship, he stumbles upon an oppressive silence. Of course, well-meaning parents want to protect their child from unpleasant conversations. This is the maximum protection from the negative that these parents are capable of. One of the conclusions that the child makes: they hide something from me, I’m superfluous in this family, they don’t like me.
In the second with the situation, the parents find out the relationship with the child. He knows the reason for the quarrel, they do not hide anything from him. The child feels in danger. He feels the precariousness of the world in which he lives, he wants silence.
In both cases, the children conclude that the world is hostile towards them. In the first case, the child wants to know what is happening, but he is not given this. In the second, the child dreams of not knowing what is happening. And if the children were asked, they would happily switch places. But they would not be better.
Of these two situations, the conclusion is: it does not matter what situation you are or are in.
Your well-being depended and depends only on the decision. Understanding this helps to forgive parents or other people in your path. Forgive the people who created the situations in which you were in pain.
Such an understanding removes the offenses of the past, replacing them with forgiveness. Forgiveness is a magical feeling that frees from internal gravity. Each deep forgiveness facilitates the further path.
Understanding that in every situation you make your own choice gives you a sense of freedom and relief that you create your life.It is only necessary to have patience and diligence in order to learn how to create it pleasant. Taking responsibility for yourself, whatever creation it is, it is yours.
Imagine yourself a wizard who is just starting to learn. And no matter how many times the desired will not work, try to create your life early! Thank the people who have created situations in which you have learned to understand yourself and others, thank yourself. You become more beautiful with every awareness, with every forgiveness!